"The Art of Open Sensuality"

A modern guide to careful
exploration of One's expanding
sexuality and sensuality
page #27 of 30

Written by: David & Tia
from October 2000 to June 2004

Warning!
[this web site contains sexual content)

 

 


Having and Using Your Voice

It is important for everyone in the interaction to feel comfortable with their boundaries, regardless of what the other people’s boundaries may be.  You are the only person who knows what mood you are in, what emotions you are feeling and thus what boundaries you need to follow.  Boundaries may change from time to time, depending on many circumstances.  You cannot expect any other person to read your mind and act the way that is best for you.  You must use your own voice and have the courage to speak up when you need something different to happen or something to slow down or stop.  To stuff it for later will only be a source of problems for you and your mate.  Tactfully take care of the issue when it arises, unless you know it is a minor thing that will pass quickly.

 

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What Brought Us to This Sort of Thinking?

 


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Quick links to the different topics on this web page:

Our Mission Statement
Why Should We Consider Any of This?
Are You Ready for Any of This?
Monogamy As a Reality?
What is Soft-Swinging or Soft-Polyamory?
Ethics & Honesty
Working Out Your Issues
Communication, Communication, Communication
Your Boundaries and Comfort Levels
Setting the Boundaries
Emotions
Jealousy
Essential Criteria
What Are Some Advantages to This Lifestyle?

What Are Some Common Disadvantages?

What Preparation Are Needed
How to Meet People
Stamina
Bisexuality
The Fantasy of Finding that Single Bi-Female
What Kind of Couples are We Likely Encounter?
Frauds
Dealing with Full-Swingers
Behavior During an Interaction
Oral Sex
Tips for the Men  &  Tips for the Women
Having and Using Your Voice
What Brought Us to This Sort of Thinking?

Sexual Desire
Relationship Healing Solutions

 

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