"The Art of Open Sensuality"

A modern guide to careful
exploration of One's expanding
sexuality and sensuality
page #23 of 30

Written by: David & Tia
from October 2000 to June 2004

Warning!
[this web site contains sexual content)

 


Dealing with Full-Swingers

Soft-swinging doesn't equal "we only swap with strangers sometimes."  We are pleased to hear that they are at least selective, but they are likely make Soft-swingers rather uneasy.  To be around those who have decided that full on swinging is a part of their chosen lifestyle can be titillating, but also intimidating.  We do not intend to exclude them in our on-line Yahoo interactive group that we host, as we are not your judge (unless you clearly post it on your profile), but if this is you, please respect people's wishes and comfort levels.  We want the couples that have chosen not to engage in intercourse with strangers to not have that choice challenged.  We want them to feel confident about their choice.

You will likely encounter plenty of couples who rave about Full-swinging, and from all appearances, they do seem to be having a grand'ol time.  But we fear if we were to go there, how would it be explained to our children, and even their children that we died young, simply because we had a little fun one night?  In some regards, we are jealous of those who are able to just go for it.  My prudish attitude may be one of the disadvantages of having been in the medical field I guess?  There are lots of other nasty things that a condom will not protect you from like Herpes and Hepatitis.

 

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Behavior During an Interaction

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Quick links to the different topics on this web page:

Our Mission Statement
Why Should We Consider Any of This?
Are You Ready for Any of This?
Monogamy As a Reality?
What is Soft-Swinging or Soft-Polyamory?
Ethics & Honesty
Working Out Your Issues
Communication, Communication, Communication
Your Boundaries and Comfort Levels
Setting the Boundaries
Emotions
Jealousy
Essential Criteria
What Are Some Advantages to This Lifestyle?

What Are Some Common Disadvantages?

What Preparation Are Needed
How to Meet People
Stamina
Bisexuality
The Fantasy of Finding that Single Bi-Female
What Kind of Couples are We Likely Encounter?
Frauds
Dealing with Full-Swingers
Behavior During an Interaction
Oral Sex
Tips for the Men  &  Tips for the Women
Having and Using Your Voice
What Brought Us to This Sort of Thinking?

Sexual Desire
Relationship Healing Solutions

 

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