"The Art of Open Sensuality"

A modern guide to careful
exploration of One's expanding
sexuality and sensuality
page #22 of 30

Written by: David & Tia
from October 2000 to June 2004

Warning!
[this web site contains sexual content)


 


Frauds

You may encounter a lot of men who will claim that their wife is all into it, but what they are really doing is sharing pics of their wife or girlfriend (assuming they are not just pics he has collected off the Web) in order to garner nude pics of you.  If this is the case, there is no chance you will ever be able to talk on the phone, let alone ever meet them, since the wife does not have a clue as to what her man is doing over the Net.  Heck, he may not even live in your State.  If they are un-willing to both talk on the phone about this, so that you can hear her voice as well, fug-ged-a-bout-it!

We recommend you do not share dirty pics with them.  There is no requirement to share any dirty pics at all, unless that happens to be your fetish.  We find that anyone who refuses to meet you before they have seen nude pics are highly suspect.  A clear face shot is all we require.  Even that much you will find is hard to come by.  We even tell them up front that they need not be racy pics they share with us.

If they are wanting to send you lots of nude pics, that is fine, but until you see them in person, you have no clue that this really is them at all.  Once you send out pics over the Net, there is no telling where they may wind up.  I don't think you want your Brother-in-law coming over for Christmas dinner and telling you he saw your naked bodies on a porn web site.  They have whole Yahoo Groups dedicated to finding amateur nude pics in the different Yahoo profile briefcases.  I've seen it, and they had 50,000+ members!  They have these Pervs from all over the world who will post links to your profile if you have nudes there.  Yahoo does allow you to make a private folder to place such racy pics in.  You then have to type in their profile handle, or they cannot get in to see them, and you can remove them off the list at any time.

 

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Dealing with Full-Swingers

 


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Quick links to the different topics on this web page:

Our Mission Statement
Why Should We Consider Any of This?
Are You Ready for Any of This?
Monogamy As a Reality?
What is Soft-Swinging or Soft-Polyamory?
Ethics & Honesty
Working Out Your Issues
Communication, Communication, Communication
Your Boundaries and Comfort Levels
Setting the Boundaries
Emotions
Jealousy
Essential Criteria
What Are Some Advantages to This Lifestyle?

What Are Some Common Disadvantages?

What Preparation Are Needed
How to Meet People
Stamina
Bisexuality
The Fantasy of Finding that Single Bi-Female
What Kind of Couples are We Likely Encounter?
Frauds
Dealing with Full-Swingers
Behavior During an Interaction
Oral Sex
Tips for the Men  &  Tips for the Women
Having and Using Your Voice
What Brought Us to This Sort of Thinking?

Sexual Desire
Relationship Healing Solutions

 

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