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Bisexuality
Females
So, one or both of you may
wonder if you are bi-sexual. It is far more common than you might
think. The Media is careful to steer clear of this topic, as it
automatically implies that there is and open relationship. Gay
people can be very monogamous, so it is less of a threat. They
would like us to think that only the fringe freaks could be bi-sexual,
but this is far from the case. Many people find themselves attracted
to their same gender. Many are curious what it would be like to
be intimate with another person of their gender. You will find
that well over half of the women in the lifestyle consider themselves
either Bi-sexual or at least Bi-curious.
 
We cannot know if this is reflective of
our society at large, but it should be. Only those in this lifestyle
are able to disclose this about themselves, even just to their mate.
I was with my Ex for 14 years and never felt I could tell him about
it.
Well let’s discuss women and their bi-sexuality
or curiosity towards it. Do you find yourself attracted to women?
Do you see a beauty that makes you desire to touch or kiss women?
Are you curious as to what a female feels like and what it would be
like to satisfy them sexually?
Being bi-sexual does not necessarily mean
that you prefer women over men. Quite the contrary, you may feel
a balance in your desire between the two genders, or still find men
to be your desired focus, with females as the proverbial icing on the
cake. Being Bi-sexual also does not mean that you will indiscriminately
do anything with any female around who claims to be bi-sexual.
Just as you would most likely not begin groping and kissing any man
you encounter. It is normal to find some females you are attracted
to and some that you are not.
Perhaps the term bi-sexual seems a little
too much to put on yourself, yet you are not necessarily still curious
about your bi-sexuality. The term I find that most fit this middle
ground is Bi-friendly. On the Barbara Walters talk show: The View,
they used the term 'Hetro-flexible'. It states that you are open
to certain bisexual activities, but not all of them, and only with the
right women. The degree that you want to interact with a woman
is solely up to you.
You should not perform for other people without being fully
desirable of that situation. You won't be doing anyone a favor,
believe me. Those you are with who would have you do this against
your own desires, places their love for you in question, and the other
woman could be insulted or hurt once she realizes you were not really
into it. Try to remember that other people do have feelings, even
if they are good at concealing it.
Males
When it comes to male Bi-sexuality or curiosity,
this is a subject many people in the lifestyle have much more difficulty
with. It appears to be emerging a bit more over time, with this
becoming more and more public.
 Men
are able to begin to explore pieces of who they are, those parts that
were not allowed to be exhibited. We have seen that men also qualify
their bisexuality into the term Soft-Bi or Bi-friendly, in that they
could find light touching to be stimulating and enjoyable by members
of both genders. This may not necessarily include sexual touching that
is derived for the purpose of orgasm, but that which is more sensual
and appreciative in nature. You need not be the type of man who fantasizes
about touching other men to be Bi-friendly.
Feel free to embrace your sexuality in all
the degrees it presents itself to you. Try not to feel pressured to
be something you are not. Be exactly what you feel you are, within a
supportive and loving environment. Just a s long as you keep it
outside of the Ace of Hearts Club. We have even had our posts
to the on-line club deleted with this topic in the post.
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