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"The Art of Open Sensuality" A modern guide
to careful Written by: David & Tia |
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"The Art of Open Sensuality" A modern guide
to careful Written by: David & Tia |
Warning!
[this web site contains sexual content)
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Your level of sexual exploration is always very personal to each couple. In any successful encounter the boundaries will need to be set at the level of the person with the most reservations, so that it is a pleasurable experience for all involved. You will hopefully find people in the lifestyle who are receptive to your comfort levels and boundaries. We even recommend that you perhaps not interact with couples who normally full swing as there seems to be a tendency toward pressure to pass your boundaries. Not all are like that, but it is always better to play it safe than be sorry. If you have become good friends and develop trust then that should not be an issue, but for encounters with people you know nothing or little about, safety first. Some may be hoping to groom you for more later down the road, but again stay within your comfort zones. When it gets down to it, many swingers we have talked with feel that if there is no hope of this leading to full sex before long, why bother? This can be most frustrating. Few people seem to have a good appreciation for sensual touching, without the need to work a person to climax? Remember people are more than genitals. To try to find out if they are going to be respectful of your boundaries, it should be carefully communicated as to what your boundaries are well before you meet (if possible), let alone before the play starts. By then, it is often too late. The boundaries should be set each time you are intimate with a couple. It is never to be assumed that anyone has permission to simply take up where you last left off. Talking about boundaries openly with another couple before being intimate may not be easy, as it seems so premeditated and far from spontaneous and sensual. Just remember those teenagers who don't want to take birth control because of what it implies, and end up pregnant. The implication is there, by your meeting with a couple in 'the lifestyle' that there is a good likelihood of some serious action, thus the door to communication should be open and be a critical part of the relationship development, Push past you comfort levels and talk about it, so that fewer mistakes or regrets are made.
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