The Art of Opening Sensuality Page #6

Ethics & Honesty

When you find that there is no chemistry or commonalities with another couple you try to connect with, try to push past your comfort level and be honest with them about it. It is no fun to be on the other end and see the communication suddenly evaporate. We all invest many hours trying to get to know other couples, and many times we do not even get a straight explanation why all that time, effort, and even money was for not. That is much the reason why so many couple seem to get burned out on this lifestyle in just a few years. Good communication is an art. As they say: 'treat others as you would want to be treated' for a guide on good communication.

We feel that being true and honest with your partner, and doing this together is by far the healthiest way to maintain a rewarding relationship with each other. It can be far more fun and stimulating as well. Doing this together will add to the complexity to this, as you not only have a focus on your likes or dislikes of a person but 4 people who must find a common desire to be together. You will find that this initiates issues that need to be faced and worked out some of which may be difficult and painful to deal with. And solve! We all have our own issues, our baggage so to speak to deal with. Involving yourself in relationships with others is either going to open the doors to some of these issues or close the doors to openness even more. The latter being a dangerous thing as it only causes your relationship to become more remote. Feel free to rock the boat and be completely honest about your feelings. It is truly the only way you two can do this without harming both your relationship and yourselves individually

Being true to your love is the only key to maintaining a positive relationship, as opposed to cheating. We have heard of several couples in the Full-Swinger's lifestyle who have still split-up for the reason that they found their partner doing things behind their back. Even though they had this open relationship, the betrayal was still intolerable?

If you do things behind your partners back, and they do not have a clue as to what you are doing, inside they will know something is not right! You will not be able to harvest a meaningful healthy relationship with your mate unless you are straight with them in all relevant areas. If you are not honest with them and they thought they were in love with you, it simply is not possible to truly have that love to build on. They would be in love with an illusion. We know complete honesty is not an easy thing to maintain, but the alternatives would have your relationship be nothing more than a sham. It is up to you.

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